The Dad of Dads, the Mustachio of Mustachios

Will Smith and DJ Jazzy Jeff once rapped that parents just don't understand.  I definitely identified with that song throughout my teenage years, but now that I am almost out of my twenties (eek!), I have come to realize a few things about my dear, young-at-heart father that I'd like to share with all of you in honor of his birthday.

1.  My father is one of the most charismatic people I've ever met. My father knows everyone.  I wish I could say I was exaggerating, but I think I might actually be right!  Whether at the hospital where he works, at Steeler games, or even in the grocery store, people used to come up to him, and talk for what seemed like hours.  This used to annoy me, but now that I am nearing thirty, I realize just how special these conversations were.  People of all walks felt drawn to my father; he has a way with words, a way of making you feel unique and special, and he commands attention wherever he goes.  I can appreciate this even more fully, because (as my dear hubby will tell you), I have followed directly in Dad's footsteps in this regard!

2.  My father has joy for people and for life.  He's always got a story to tell, a joke to share, a smile to beam...he's an instant friend, a lover of golfing, gardening, camping, fishing, the beach and all other things nature, and is so much fun to be around.  He also loves to share these loves with anyone who wants to experience and learn (and has taken Jeff on various excursions-including fishing, golfing, and the like).  It doesn't matter to him whether you're the best or the worst; it's just a time to be together.

3. My father's words are words to live by.  I had so many people tell me what a wonderful way my father has with words after his speech at Jeff's and my wedding in July.  I have to agree, though it was no surprise to us!  My father has always something to say, and when he does, I've learned to listen.  Whether he's giving a speech, giving advice, or simply voicing his opinion, I respect what wisdom my father brings to the table.  I might not always agree at first, but I've learned so much from his perspectives and life experiences that it's hard to deny that my father is more than just a "wise guy."  He is truly a wise man.

4.  My father loves his family.  I have watched my father grow with both my brother and me, treating us differently as we are different, but loving us no less.  Likewise, I have seen him accept my new and loving husband as though he were one of his own-because as of July 10, he is!  Most of all though, I have seen my father's love for my mother grow daily throughout the years.  I see the way he still looks at her and the respect he has for her, and I have something to aspire to in my own relationship.

5. My father is loved. When I'm sixty-one, I hope I am as vibrant, as joyful, and as well-loved as my dad of dads. We love you Dad!  You're the best!  Happy, happy, happy birthday!

Love, Lauren and Jeffy

WAIT A MINUTE!
One for good measure!

6.  My father has one heck of a mustache!  And we pay tribute to it in pictures now...